Our generation of ‘tweens’ may wonder what on earth we did without the internet and its many tools; How did we stay connected to friends? How did we complete our assignments? What did we do of an evening? To them, anyone over the age of 25 is a dinosaur when it comes to the internet and in a couple of ways, they’re actually not far wrong.
Social media began, for me and many others at least, with Yahoo chat rooms, forums, Myspace pages and finally MSN messaging. It was a simpler time. You could be faceless, free and anonymous and social media certainly didn’t take over your life like it does today. Smartphones, laptops and a computer in most home was still years away, we were so naive in the early days of the WWW, but could that now come back to bite us?
I recently stumbled across this interesting article http://bit.ly/1BDWH6g which shows todays figures for social media users, among other facts, and I found it astounding. The billions of internet users today, in the majority, know about internet safety and how to protect their personal details online. Back in the day, were we so savvy?
The things we post on the internet can be viewed by an unlimited number of people, and they could remain online for eternity. Unbenown to many, the digital footprint we have left behind could be extremely detrimental to us in a variety of ways. For example, do we want a prospective employer to discover that night we posted about marijuana when we were 17? Do we want a new romance to come across intermate (albeit public) posts between ourselves and a past love?
In truth, nobody wants to be judged by their past and an online past can be so much more revealing than we’d have possibly thought.
However, it isn’t too late to clean up our digital footprints
With every blog post, profile picture and social media comment we add something new to our digital footprint. Friends, acquaintances and total strangers can learn a lot from them about us. Our digital footprint shows us at our best, but it can also show us at our very worst (the drunken Facebook status, the silly selfies, the long unnecessary rants…) and these posts can have huge consequences years after they’ve been entirely forgotten by us.
Unfortunately, there isn’t a mass-delete option for past posts on most sites. So short of deleting all of your online profiles, dealing with your digital footprint could take some time. Warning – this could also be a hugely cringe-worthy journey into your social past, but it could also bring back great memories and a time for reflection on how not to be THAT poster again.
The first place to head to is your social media accounts and check those privacy settings. To be as private as possible, ensure that only your chosen online friends can view your photos and your posts.
There is the option of allowing friends of friends to view your online presence, but consider the fact that if you have 200 friends who all have 200 friends each then this is allowing 40,000 people access to your profiles. The typical adult has been 100-300 friends/followers on each account, so if you have many more then it may be an idea to have a quicksort out of your list. Do you know all of your Facebook friends? Do you really want the creepy guy who serves you in the sandwich shop following your every move online? How many times have you walked passed that Mother on the school run and still not said hello, but kept her on your Facebook? Be ruthless. These people need to go.
Take the time to go through your profiles with a fine-toothed comb. Have in mind that if you wouldn’t like to show your Grandmother the post, then remove it. This includes foul language, rants about people and posts that reveal too much about you. Take care of those unflattering photographs by deleting or un-tagging and make sure that the online you is the person you want people to know.
The Questions You Should Ask Before You Hit Submit
Prevent silly future mistakes and blemishes on your digital footprint by asking yourself the following questions before every post:
1. How does this post make you look – What may be a joke between you and a couple of friends could be anything but humorous to an employer, coworker or romantic partner. If you want your best friend to know that you bumped into a topic of gossip today, tell them and not the world. If you want a colleague to know that your boss is annoying you, tell them (or better still, work on this in person with your boss) and although you may want to tell a small group of girl friends that you’ve started a juice diet, do you want the hot guy on the commute to know this?
2. Is the post okay to be shared – With all the privacy settings in the world, this doesn’t prevent the new phenomenon of ‘screenshotting’. Your post could be screen shotted by a ‘frenemy’ and discussed with their friends so make sure that you haven’t posted anything that you wouldn’t say in person. It’s very easy for a person to copy your post and share it, so make sure it shows you in the best light.
3. Are you revealing too much – The more you share about yourself, it goes without saying that the more people will learn about you. A status telling your friends that you will be on holiday for a week at the end of July, may also reveal to a light-fingered acquaintance the dates that your property will be empty. Police advise that if you wouldn’t have the post enlarged and stuck to a banner in your window, then don’t press submit.
Stay on top of your digital footprint by keeping an eye on yourself and regularly performing an internet search on your name. This way you will be able to find information about yourself, that other people can also discover as well as maybe finding posts about yourself that you didn’t know existed. If you stumble across an old website you used, that you no longer do, then deactivate this account.
If you’re unsure of how to remove previous posts on a social media account then you can find the links here: http://bit.ly/1dfTHmm
Clarke Murphy